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A married man who used to be a woman says that he is pregnant and will give birth to a baby girl in July.
“How does it feel to be a pregnant man? Incredible,” wrote Thomas Beatie, 34, from the Pacific North West of the United States, in the latest issue of the gay magazine The Advocate.
“Despite the fact that my belly is growing with a new life inside me, I am stable and confident being the man that I am.”
Mr Beatie was born female, named Tracy Lagondino, but had gender reassignment surgery and is now legally male and married to a woman.
He decided to carry a baby for his wife, Nancy, because she had a hysterectomy years ago. He was able to get pregnant because he kept his female organs when he switched genders.
“Sterilisation is not a requirement for sex reassignment, so I decided to have chest reconstruction and testosterone therapy but kept my reproductive rights,” he writes. “Wanting to have a biological child is neither a male nor female desire but a human desire.” The couple, who have been together for ten years, run a custom screenprinting business in Bend, Oregon, where neighbours do not know that Mr Beatie was once a woman.
“Our desire to work hard, buy our first home and start a family was nothing out of the ordinary. That is, until we decided that I would carry our child,” he wrote.
Before becoming pregnant, Mr Beatie stopped the testosterone injections he was receiving as part of his gender reassignment. “It had been roughly eight years since I had my last menstrual cycle so this wasn’t a decision that I took lightly. My body regulated itself after about four months and I didn’t have to take any exogenous oestrogen, progesterone or fertility drugs to aid my pregnancy,” he wrote.
The couple bought donor vials from a cryogenic sperm bank and, facing resistance and prejudice from doctors, resorted to home insemination. “Doctors have discriminated against us, turning us away due to their religious beliefs. Healthcare professionals have refused to call me by a male pronoun or recognise Nancy as my wife. Receptionists have laughed at us. Friends and family have been unsupportive; most of Nancy’s family doesn’t even know I’m transgender,” he said.
Mr Beatie’s first successful insemination ended in a life-threatening ectopic pregnancy with triplets that required surgery, resulting in the loss of all his embryos and his right Fallopian tube. “When my brother found out about my loss, he said, ‘It’s a good thing that happened. Who knows what kind of monster it would have been?’,” he wrote.
The second pregnancy resulted in a baby girl who is due to be born on July 3. “I will be my daughter’s father, and Nancy will be her mother. We will be a family,” he wrote.
Mr Beatie would not be the first transgender man to give birth, according to Lisa Masterson, an obstetrician at Cedars-Sinai Medical Centre in Los Angeles.
“A transgender man can be pregnant because he has the same organs as a woman,” Dr Masterson said on the ABC Good Morning America show.
Dr Masterson said, however, that transgendered men face special health risks resulting from their sex change. “It’s really important that he doesn’t take any testosterone early on in the pregnancy and later on,” she said. “That can cause male-type characteristics in the female baby.”
Some of the Beaties’ neighbours in Bend voiced scepticism about the pregnancy claim. One resident, Josh Love, told ABC: “I couldn’t say that he looks pregnant. I can stick my stomach out and almost make it look like that. I think it’s kind of bizarre. I don’t know if I believe it or not.”
The Advocate said it had confirmed the story with Mr Beatie’s doctor.
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All I can say is that I feel bad for this child. I don't mean to offend anyone, but where do we draw the line. It is unfair to bring an innocent child into this mess. Why is everyone trying to change what God has created between a man and a woman?
Raquel , Grand Rapids, MI , USA
Well I think it is amazing. I really feel that he will be a great father to his baby. No matter what type of life you choose to live in and whatever body that doesn't have anything to do with the love for a child.
Nikki, Alabama, United Sates
This is wonderful! It is their choice and they made the right choice. If they are able to provide love for the baby, I don't see anything unethically wrong with it.
Audrey Yeo, Singapore, Singapore
I am a woman myself. However, as I dread pregnancy, I've been procrastinating the thought of having a child. Mr. Beatie has demonstrated far more love and courage than I do. I'm pretty sure that he will love the child and the family in his best capacity.
Julia, Nagano, Japan
a woman with beard... from "carnivale" the travelling circus
Leo, Budapest, Hungary
It's great to see posts that aren't ignorant, disciminating, or hateful-I'm a social worker and just when I think there's no hope for the world I see amazing posts like these full of support, understanding and tolerance. More thinking like this and their daughter won't have a problem! Thank you all
Alyson, Clayton, USA
I think Mr Beatie did the right thing. I am proud of him and his wife for fighting prejudice, and I wish them a good and happy life with their new baby.
Isamar, Caracas, Venezuela
there is nothing unnatural about the whole procedure, she a woman for God sake,remember she's got her reproductive organs intact. This is too natural to be unbelievable!
adusei, accra, ghana
i think this whole issue is totally over-rated. i mean seriously, why make a big fuss out of this when the person giving birth is a female? isnt it normal for females to give birth? unless this thomas here had taken away the female reproductive organs too and then got pregnant, THEN its a miracle
ling, singapore, singapore
she's not a man in the first place. a man can have no uterus/ vagina/ ovaries , so technically you can't call her a man even though she takes too much testosterone that she even grew a beard and mostache. because that's what happens when women administer testosterone, that's abc of endocrinology.
zbotto, cairo, egypt
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