David Lister, Scotland Correspondent
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A woman aged 65 who became the victim of an online smear campaign that she says made her “look like a sexual predator” called yesterday for stricter controls on social networking websites.
Helen Kilby, who has never used the internet and never even owned a computer, was shocked after learning from her hairdresser that there was a profile page in her name on the Bebo site claiming that she had enjoyed a string of affairs with younger men.
Mrs Kilby, who is recovering from a stroke, said: “As I walked into the hairdresser’s the wee girl that washes my hair said to me, ‘Helen, what are you doing on that Bebo?’. I had no idea what she was talking about. I said, ‘What’s Bebo?’. ”
Mrs Kilby was horrified after eventually discovering that the web page claimed that she had been having sex with customers in the snooker hall where she works and had tried to run over a teenage girl in her car.
The site included pictures of Mrs Kilby and her car and registration number, her home telephone number and a section inviting punters to guess the weight of her disabled 26-year-old daughter.
A tearful Mrs Kilby, who described the material on the site as “disgusting”, said yesterday: “I’m very distressed about this. It’s left me very weepy and the doctor has had to prescribe pills to help my nerves.”
She told the Hamilton Advertiser that the postings had shattered her life in the town of Strathaven in South Lanarkshire, where she has worked as part-time manager of the Joe McDokes snooker hall for 20 years.
Mrs Kilby said: “I feel violated and these stories make me look like a sexual predator. It is malicious gossip with the deliberate intention of ruining my reputation as a stand-up citizen in my home community. Many people have asked me why I was on the Bebo website and before I investigated it, I had never even used a computer or the internet.”
She reported the web page to police but was told that they could not intervene because it was not a criminal matter. Her local Citizens Advice Bureau contacted Bebo on her behalf and the page has since been taken down, but Mrs Kilby is now considering legal action against the individuals she believes were responsible.
The case raises fresh issues about regulation of the internet and the lack of overarching legislation to deal specifically with online defamation.
Ofcom, the communications watchdog, said that its remit did not extend to the internet. A spokeswoman for Bebo said: “Bebo has a strong, self-regulating community, supported by strict terms of service. Breaches of these terms, whether spotted by Bebo or the member community, are taken very seriously. We may remove materials that we determine fraudulent, defamatory, or that infringe or violate any party’s rights.”
The Internet Service Providers’ Association said that online defamation was a particularly tricky issue, not least because it was impossible for internet companies to monitor their sites continuously.
The association said: “The website manager has to take down the material if they have knowledge of unlawful information or defamation, but one of the big problems is that defamation is a very difficult issue and it is very hard for internet companies to play judge and jury on these things.”
Mrs Kilby, who was widowed ten years ago, said: “I’ve been to see a lawyer but I don’t know if I’m going to take legal action. I’ll wait and see but I don’t see why the people who did it should get off. There really should be some sort of control to make sure this sort of thing can’t happen.”
Strathclyde Police said: “This is not something that police would deal with. We don’t police websites and if it’s about malicious gossip being spread around then it’s not a police matter.”
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I come from ellens hometown and only heard anything about this because she went to the papers and told the world, if she had contacted bebo and had it deleted and left it at that then the whole town wouldn't have known anything! Shes blown it out of proportion and is probably after a cash magazine deal.
To finish i do feel sorry about what was said about her, but at the end of the day she could have dealt with it swiftly and quietly and that would have been the end of it.
R Mac, Strathaven, Scotland
This is probably a form of criminal stalking and should be treated as such by the police. The published claims, if untrue, also almost certainly constitute a libel and those responsible should be tracked down and sued in proportion to the damage caused. The legal position of sites such as Bebo should be clarified so that they become responsible for published libels and incitement to criminal actions published on their sites.
Peter, London,
I don't see how any social network is responsible for the actions of users that lie about who they are when posting a profile. The woman should ask Bebo to help her track down who did this to her but to sue Bebo is like sueing the bank when someone steals your bankcard number. The bank cannot make sure every person using each card everytime is the owner of that card just like a social or any website can make sure that each user is exactly who they say they are when they login. No matter how high the security.
ReeRee D, Liverpool, UK
Yes this is bad but surely both the Police and the Times have more important things to worry about????? in fact surely i do too............................................
Andy b, Brighton,
so funny!
Rebecca, London, UK
The police response is disgusting. Of course it is a criminal matter - it seems a clear cut case of malicious libel and very possibly a gross 'incitement to a breach of the peace' among other things - and the woman concerned should sue all involved for huge damages, and as soon as possible to acquire the relevant IP logs and usernames. For once, this is one case I would love to see the 'compensation culture' triumph in, to the tune of millions of pounds.
Bob Hardy, Stoke-on-Trent, UK
Sure Bebo can! And since this is by no means just 'malicious gossip being spread around', it's identity theft -- those people were pretending to be Mrs Kilby talking about herself -- the police must indeed intervene.
Harry, Oxford,
The law needs to catch up with this and quickly. Police sticking their heads in the sand should be wary of the backlash that would come if some form of harm came to this lady or another victim as a result of these postings.
Tom, London,
is this not fraud , harasment ,invasion of privacy and stalking
also a copyright issue with the pictures did they have permission to use them
knight, aberdeen, uk
Strathclyde Police didn't do anything about Hamilton when informed that he shouldn't own guns. Why do you think they're any different now!
JohnC, Warwick, UK
I don't know who is advising this women but she really does need better advice. With regard to criminal sanctions as an earlier poster suggested there is a whole raft of legislation which provides for criminal sanction.
In relation to the defamation issue, BEBO published this information on its site and she has a cause of action against them.
nix, wirral, uk
This is obviously a criminal offence and the police must get involved. It will be easy to trace the sick-minded person who did this and make an example with a fine in the thousands to send the message to others contemplating similar acts. If they do not have the skills, the police can ask a 17 to 20 year old computer expert to trace the IP address of the poster of the foul innuendos. It would be a challenge most would enjoy.
B J Deller, Marbella, Spain
Online defamation is evil and underhand way of ruining a person's life. It must be dealt with using the strictest of punishments.
Jeff, Manchester,
Not a police matter? Wouldn't something like that constitute lible?
Meg, Pembs,
Strathclyde Police should take a closer look at the Protection from Harassment Act.
Dee, Sheffield,
Bebo should be able to identify the IP address of the computer used to upload the material.
Chris D, Edinburgh, Scotland