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I knew my online life had to change when my boss decided that he would join Facebook. As the resident young person in an office of thirty and forty-somethings I was tasked with setting up his online profile. His first act on Facebook was to make me a Facebook friend. I had created a monster.
Intrigued colleagues followed my boss’s lead and also asked me to create their online existence and make me their online friends. Soon I had to justify my choice of Anchorman and Zoolander as favourite films. I realised that once you admit a love of silly Will Ferrell films, bosses might doubt your professional judgment too.
My profile had to change, and so did my online behaviour. My favourite hobbies no longer included “working up a sweat, cooking up a storm”. In fact, I quickly had no hobbies, musical or cinematic preferences at all. I was quick to “detag” any compromising photographs posted by others as I didn’t want anyone to think that I had too much fun or was too much fun to be taken seriously.
In essence, I attempted to remove any indication of quirks to my colleagues. Quirks are good for your personality, but might be the reason you miss a deadline.
One problem with Facebook is that it cannot distinguish between the friend who knows all of your embarrassing secrets and those with whom you enjoy a two-minute chat. To counter this one friend created two profiles, one for personal friends and one for colleagues, in an effort to keep his two lives separate. I’ve decided that trying to maintain one online life is hard enough.
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Our entire world culture practically revolves around data. Anything posted online is processed by more prying eyes and machines than you will ever know. Your boss -even though an immediate concern- should be set as a miniscule model (or lesson) against a backdrop of all data upon every information server. Just as the government keeps a physical record of every âknownâ individual, the same applies in the electronic realm as well. The emphasis of every piece of information may or may not take precedence for acquisition depending on how you live your life. As far as your boss â well, you stuck your foot in your mouth not to mention comfort zone. Obviously, if you think some of the things you are doing may be questionable to another person, and feel the need to hide, why even do those things? Understandably, each person requires a certain amount of privacy. Besides, even if your boss did find out, why even worry about it? If perhaps you fear that you might lose your job due to a âwhat ifâ, then I would suggest re-evaluating the way you think about things. If the âfearâ is relevant that something will happen due to the naive nature by which you live your life, then I would suggest you seek employment elsewhere. Your article also stated that you set up your bossâs profile. If I deduce this correctly, then what youâre saying is that you help your boss set up a profile at work (?). If you are working in a position that attends to sites related to âsocial networkingâ then I might find that action relevant, but why even entertain such pleasure pursuits in the work place is quite beyond me(though itâs not uncommon to find employees with computers doing everything else but working). If anything, I believe your article made its point clear â and you have learned your lesson.
Vau Gimel, RedOaks,
So would you be willing to PAY for this? That is the question. The Web is designed as an open space. Would you be willing to pay to close a little bit of it off for yourself or your very close friends?
Srini, Los Angeles, CA
As more companies are using facebook to network, you may want to know that when you add a friend, you can hide your personal details from them by checking the 'limited profile' box. Be wary about adding details such as your birthday and home town as these can be used for identity fraud.
Heather, High Peak,
Help is at hand!
Within Facebook it is possible to create two different levels of 'friends.' One level of friends has access to your whole profile and the other to only a limited profile. The limits of this profile are defined by you - as elements of your full profile that should not be shown to those without permission. You can set this up in about 2 minutes using the 'privacy' link at the top of your account.
When adding a friend, tell Facebook whether they are allowed to see your whole profile or just your limited profile. That way you're still in touch with your business contacts but can keep secret your nefarious activities.
You've also got to wonder whether someone who can't set up their own account is really going to be a particularly threatening cyber stalker - and how many people really care about your profile. After one visit, do you spend that much time reading other peoples?
Ged, Oxford,