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The latest World of Warcraft game was eagerly awaited by millions, but there was one group who have been filled with dread by the game’s release: “Warcraft Widows”.
The game has such a firm grip over the lives of many men, that some wives complain they rarely see their spouses any more. One 39-year-old Warcraft Widow, Carolyn, recently told The Times that the game has so absorbed her husband Paul, that she sees him only during meal and lavatory breaks.
“We’ve had to enter into some heavy negotiation to work out the nights and weekends when Paul can play without me nagging him to stop, because it’s not just the odd half hour,” she said.
At a recent gaming convention, one player said a friend became so obsessed with the game that his wife gave him an ultimatum: quit Warcraft or the marriage is over. He started divorce proceedings the next day.
The game makers, Blizzard Entertainment, do not reveal the average time players spend on the game, but academic research estimates it as much as 25 hours a week. One unpublished study says the figure could be closer to 40 hours.
Spotting this trend, Relate, the relationship-counselling organisation, has introduced a training module for its counsellors on problems caused by online gaming-obsessions. An internet support group called “WOW_widow” has also sprung up with the motto: “Stop leveling and start living!”
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It's an awesome game, but all things must be taken in moderation. That being said there are obviously bigger problems with the relationships if a computer game holds more interest than one's partner.
James, Munich, Germany
I know alot of people in army and this is there way to play games with there children when there posted around the world i also know alot of grandparents who play with there grand children ect
Darks, Hitchin,
no there isnt
mark boardman, hutton, uk
Get your spouse involved. My husband got me to play and now I am hooked. We don't have fights about how long he plays because now I can play too. It is an activity that we both enjoy and a fun way to spend time together once kids go to bed.
Kristen, Pataskala, USA
Almost half of WoW players are women.
Cody Shepherd, Seattle,
The sad thing here is that a marriage could offer a man less than a simple computer game. I think society should sit down and reevaluate what's important for it, and work out what's gone wrong with the lives we're living and the ways we treat each other, instead of blaming of our problems on games.
Victor Georgiev, Sofia, Bulgaria
There is a way to stop becoming a warcraft widow.start your own character and try it yourself. My wife has and rather than being a wedge between us its a combined hobby. Beware of playing too much though, there is a reason that many players call the game "Warcrack".
Scott, Dundee,
Kudos to the guy who chose WoW instead of marriage, he's an inspiration to us all, he's the hikikomori king.
luca, turin, italy
Sad that people abandon their family for this and other games. Dont get me wrong, I love video games myself, but there is much more to life than sitting and playing a game
John Boom, London,