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When she came out as a bisexual last summer, York University student Deborah Fenney was sacked from the job in the York University Christian Union.
She was asked to leave her position as Social Action Representative. "I met with the presidents of the CU and as they explained it to me: Part of being a post holder is upholding the aims and values of the CU, whatever your private beliefs." Fenney, who was raised and schooled as a devout Evangelical, still considers herself as such, but she represents a number of young Christians whose sexuality clashes with the official doctrine of their campus' Christian Union. "Over the summer holidays I had the chance to pray and reflect on it, but at the end of it all I still couldn't believe that God necessarily condemns all homosexual behaviour.”
The media have focused on Christian groups who protested against the Sexual Orientations Regulation Bill, which forbids discrimination over sexual orientation in hiring practices, this instils the assumption that the religion is anti-gay as a whole. For young gay students this trend can be especially hurtful: the religious scene at most universities is dominated by Christian Unions connected to the Evangelical Alliance. This group has publicly stated that it accepts sexually active gay people but expects them “in due course to see the need to change their lifestyle”.
The Lesbian and Gay Christian Movement is tackling this issue with a website for LGBT uni-aged youth ”to meet, socialise, hear from each other and support each other".
"The problem for me when I came out was that I definitely didn't fit into my Christian Union, “says Michael, a senior member of the website , who requested the use of a pseudonym to avoid a backlash from the religious community. “However, I also didn't feel comfortable in the LGBT society, as I didn't feel it 'was me'. This website is a place in between; here is somewhere that can mend the two sides.”
Michael sums up the problem of bias facing many religious homosexuals: "When people hear you're a Christian they seem to automatically want to define you. They say, oh you must think this, you must feel that." He said this attitude was strongly typified when he was an undergraduate at York University and active in their branch of the Christian Union. “However it seemed like they were saying, this is the way we think, which is right, and this is the way that everyone else thinks, which is wrong. You could either side with them as a Christian, or not be regarded as a Christian at all, and I felt alienated by this attitude and as a result, stopped going.”
Rose Rickford and Ben Nichols, the LGBT Officers for the University of York Students' Union, believe that the Christian Union's policies are causing intimidation and antagonism on campus. "It's very frustrating when organisations such as these undo any good work that may be done by continuing to underscore the notion that LGBT people are somehow 'wrong' or 'deviant'," says Rickford. "We've had students come to us saying that the reason they have been confused about their sexuality is because of the messages from the CU.”
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God will judge me, so you don't need to.
Jon , Paris,
What is intersting is how critical an issue this seems to be for many Evangelicals. There is a family in America who travel around to the funerals of soldiers killed in Iraq with posters saying 'God hates fags' - on ther easoning that anyone who died in Iraq must have been hated by God, so must have committed sodomy.
I think that is because the principle of Evangelical worship has to be that the Bible is the truth. Those who return with 'Jesus emphasised kindness rather than harshness, so lets focus on that rather than the few anti-gay passages' are just adding fuel to the fire, by suggesting that there are external criteria by which we can judge what is important in the Bible, so that the Bible becomes no longer the source of all wisdom on Earth.
In their extremism one sees the desperation of a cornered animal. Let's hope it is not so ferocious as to cause much greater misery than it already has.
Chris, Edinburgh,
Although I believe that the evangelistic view on almost everything is discriminatory, it is unfair to place their views on all of Christianity. Various more liberal denominations are much more welcoming, and there should be a wider selection of Christian groups at university so people don't feel so alienated if they don't completely conform with evangelist or catholic views.
Rose, Cambridge, Cambridgeshire
O ,that's an awful time in realizing how LGBTs are being discriminated although the community has somehow proved itself to be culturally open and integrated.
Here in Hongkong , using my experience as an example, I have been studying in a Catholic single-sex high school and I have been exposed to lesbian relationships and kind of getting more and more interested in girls rather than guys. I totally doubt myself since I am a catholic . I sort of confess to my religious studies' teacher and he said it's OK to be a homo because God has asked us to live in peace with each other according to the scriptures.
After his counselling, I find my life again, I realize how stubborn the others are comparing to what the bible has said. People may judge that this is blasphemy, but I am sure what my teacher said will demonstrate how homos and catholics can co-op together.
It doesn't mean people must accept homos, but at least not discriminating / blaming on us.
Lily, Hong Kong,
All well and good, Ken, but the real subtext in this and most other UK media stories on this topic is that religious people are violating societal norms by not upholding, accepting and "celebrating" homosexuality. And the end result in the UK and the US (and as is already the case in the People's Republic of Canada), will be the criminalization of Christian orthodoxy. Give us a wave, when our cattle car crosses your path on the way to the "family camps," ok?
Frank, Columbus, Ohio, USA
An even cursory reading of Romans chapitre 1 : 18 - 32 in the New Testament clearly makes a distinction beween Christian and deviate moral behaviour which includes gay and lesbien belief and conduct. The person who professes to be Christian AND habitually immoral can be as he / she chooses, but he / she can't be both at the same time. The God of the Bible is the one who determines what the conditions are in order to belong to Him, and one of the barriers to belonging to Him is a style of life diametrically opposed to His character of holiness, righteousness, and purity. Galatians 5 : 18 - 21 states the case unequivocally.
Scott McCarty, St. Ismier, , France
I've often said that organized religion has a great deal to answer for, and here's another great example. Personally, I find the concept of a gay evangelical hard to wrap my brain around, but I know they exist.
I've often asked my more religious gay friends why they want to belong to a club that doesn't want them as members. They invariably respond that they feel they can do more good from within than from without, but still...
In Ms. Fenney's case, she's had her membership card yanked, so she's working from without whether she wants to or not.
If the leaders of the various Judeo-Christian based religions would closely re-examine the message of Yeshua ben-Joseph (the Christ), they would find a great deal of compassion, fellow-feeling, inclusion and counsel toward humility, and bugger-all about finger-pointing, modification of innate (God-given?) traits or exclusion.
Ken, Victoria BC, Canada